Do you feel you are not on the same page with your spouse? Sometimes, not even in the same book!
Do your fights feel like brain aneurisms are waiting to happen?
Do you feel like you are killing each other’s spirit instead of lifting each other up?
Have the words of “separation” or “divorce” entered your mind and your heart is hurting for what that may mean for your kids?
Marriage is hard work! It’s hard for all couples, but especially challenging for those who think and feel differently. When we are dating, the love hormones make us blind. But once those wear off, our true personality traits, beliefs, and ways of expressing ourselves as well as all the baggage we grew up with truly start interacting and the results may not always be positive.
It is heartbreaking to see two people going from “I can’t live without you” to “I can’t be in the same room with you.” It’s especially heartbreaking when there are kids involved. These kids’ entire world crumbles when their parents fight and even worse when they get a divorce.
In a very short, succinct, and friendly format, this book gives you the insight and actionable steps on how to rethink those differences, turn them into assets, and mediate the irreconcilable ones not only to avoid divorce, but to actually learn how to give each other the space to grow and enjoy your marriage.
Here is what you’ll be getting for the price of a Venti Latte:
What makes me an expert?
I would love to say it’s my doctorate in clinical psychology and my experience with many difficult couples BUT the true expertise comes from 20 years with my husband who is my complete opposite from an attachment, personality, communication…and every other perspective you can think of.
Having three wonderful kids kept us together and challenged us to constantly find ways to improve and work with each other in order to continue to successfully be married under the same roof and still enjoying each other’s company.